Moving
House/School/Job
Any
change, even when it is anticipated and planned
for, is a stressful time. Most people experience
contrasting emotions (eg, hope and excitement
mixed with sadness and loneliness) which can be
confusing. Sometimes there are physical symptoms
associated with the stress (eg, headache, chest
pain, memory problems) that add to one's anxiety.
Add to this feelings of disappointment and remorse
if things don't work out exactly as planned.
Be
reassured...
When
responses to a move are confusing, counseling
will help put things back into perspective. Often,
talking things through, without the expectation
(your own or others') of "having to cope", can
be a useful exercise.